Monday, August 5, 2013

When the kids are away, the parents will play

So my kids went to Grandma and Grandpas for the weekend.... A welcome break. I thought it would be a good time to talk to Clyde about some of the things that had been bothering me. Things didn't go as smoothly as I would have liked. We fought. We weren't understanding each other. We both may have said some hurtful things. Finally Clyde had had enough and decided to put an end to the nonsense.

He spanked me. 

With a belt.

OUCH!

I find that when I really feel like I need it and I'm a little angry, I have a much higher pain tolerance. So the spanking went on for a while.

He talked during this spanking which he doesn't normally do. He made me admit that I belong to him and told me not to doubt our relationship anymore. When he has a belt in his hand, his words are so much more effective. 

Not surprisingly, we both felt so much better after the spanking that we had another way of reconnecting. ;)

The next day we took a road trip to a neighboring state and visited a casino. We had so much fun. I even doubled my money on the roulette table! We danced at the club there and when we finally had enough for one day we went to the hotel and rested. We were pretty tired that night but the next morning I got another spanking. The walls of the hotel were thin and I'm sure someone had to have heard.

We left the hotel and drove 30 mins away to a beautiful waterfall that I have always wanted to visit. We hiked and swam and even walked through the ruins of an old castle built there in the early 1900s.

On the way back home I made a pit stop at an adult store and bought some new toys (that I will tell y'all about in my next post) with my winnings!

It was one of those perfect weekends. 

13 comments:

  1. First, Bonnie, thank you for your encouraging words on my blog. I really appreciate your taking the time to write.

    Now for your week-end, wow! It sounds like you had a wonderful week-end except for the part about the belt. Ihave never been spanked with a belt, but have a feeling it is just a matter of time. I admire your strength.
    Meredith

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    1. The belt is hard for me to take sometimes. It seems it is his implement of choice. I think he likes the reaction it gets from me. Fortunately for me I don't get it very often.

      Thanks Meredith
      XOXO


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  2. Oh Bonnie this post made me smile so much :)

    I'm proud of Clyde for stepping in at the right moment and dealing with the situation. I know I listen a hell of a lot more when his swinging the belt ;)

    Sounds like you two got some really nice "us time" and lots of fun too, good on ya for doubling your money an putting it to good use, can't wait to hear what you bought :(

    Hugs x

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    1. I was proud of Clyde too. I feel like it was kind of a turning point for him because he's never taken it upon himself to end an argument that way :)

      It was a very much needed break and I will tell you about our purchases very soon!

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  3. Hi Bonnie, so pleased you two have spanked and made up. Sounds like a fantastic weekend and just what you needed.
    Hugs DF

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    1. It was a great weekend and the time alone definitely put us back on track!

      XOXO

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  4. Hi Bonnie,

    I'm sorry things didn't initially start out well, but so glad the spanking resolved things and that you reconnected. It sounds as though you are now in a good place.

    Sounds like an amazing weekend. Happy you managed to get some 'us' time. Lucky you doubling your money! Looking forward to hear what you did with it :)

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. Oh well, that's life I guess. I'm in a much better place now. The weekend away helped me to recharge my batteries.

      XOXO

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  5. I could so use one of those child-free weekends right about now lol. Sounds like you guys had an amazing time!

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    1. It is the best! We all love our kids but its nice to have a break every once in a while to remember I'm so much more that a mom.

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  6. Sounds like it was a great weekend, despite the frustration from lack of understanding. Isn't it amazing that no matter how much we know men and women understand things differently, that all it takes is a good spanking and powerful words simultaneously to help resolve the uneasiness feeling?

    I love hiking to waterfalls. Then again, I'm a water sign, so being near almost any type of water is calming.

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    1. I am only just starting to realize how powerful a spanking and strong words are at the right time.

      I am a water baby also. It really has the most calming and rejuvenating effect on me.

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  7. Congratulations Bonnie! That sounds like the perfect weekend for you and Clyde and EXACTLY what you needed!!! I can't wait to hear about your purchases!

    J

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